Our relationship to animals

The Unitarian Universalist Fellowship will present a worship service on Sunday, May 27 addressing connections to animals, both domestic and wild that we relate to in our private and professional lives.

The Unitarian Universalist Fellowship will present a worship service on Sunday, May 27 addressing connections to animals, both domestic and wild that we relate to in our private and professional lives.

Three women will tell their stories of sharing their lives with the animals they work with.

Kate Wood calls what she does, “Natural Horsemanship.” She explains her relationship to her horses as follows:

“It is the spirit of the horse that I am drawn to, and in a sense horses are my spiritual path. I want a heart connection. I see our time together as relationship building rather than training. I want us both to feel relaxed and joyful.  I want to be the leader they choose, not the one they fear.

“My herd of mustangs live in pastures surrounding my home. I model my time with them after the ways they interact with one another. We hang out together – in a relaxed, non-demanding way.  I often sit on a stump and sing. Often I have one of them graze my lawn as I garden. Time, undemanding time together, is the first step.

“To know what a horse is feeling takes the ability to really focus your attention in a very soft way. I find the best way to be keenly observant is to enter a Zen state of mind.  I rely on peaceful and positive energy to draw him in, rather than a halter or rope.

“Moving together is a big part of life in the herd. In the wild they are so in sync that galloping in unison, they move like a flock of birds. I seek that level of connection by playing in a large arena; walking, backing up, resting, circling, moving sideways. I lead the dance, they follow.  I use my breath, energy, intent, eye contact and movement to communicate. I keep it light, playful and full of laughter. The horse is always free to leave. So, Being with  horses  this way is a moving meditation – both relaxing and energizing.

“Because they are free to leave, I know they are feeling safe and having fun if they stay with me. This kind of play is done on horse times, it’s all about building relationship, not about performance.  It’s a dance.  Over time the connection gets stronger, as you get better at the game.

“Seeing my horses relaxed, interested and wanting to interact with me and with students, tells me this unconventional way of being with horses is something they like. Who they are shines out – they become silly and playful, asking questions, seeking interaction, wanting my company. And this is what makes me the happiest at the end of the day.”