Orcas Island supports queer youth

Dear Community Members,

Promoting health and well-being requires more than addressing challenges — it calls for love in action. By accentuating the positive, fostering hope and growing the good, we ensure that everyone feels valued, cared for and recognized for their inherent beauty and worth. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. once asked, “Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’” At this moment, we are called to answer that question with empathy and action.

As part of our commitment to building a loving and inclusive community, we emphasize the importance of care for all, especially for those who face discrimination. In response to recent public comments in our community, as well as a national increase in opposition to our lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ+) youth — also referred to as queer youth — we publicly affirm our unwavering support for them. We recognize the unique challenges queer youth endure, including cultural judgments that fail to honor, respect or ensure their safety. With this in mind, we wholeheartedly commit to creating environments free from judgment and discrimination — spaces where queer youth, and all young people, can thrive.

Clubs and events specifically welcoming queer youth are essential — not only to their well-being but to the health of our entire community. These groups aim to foster a supportive environment where members can be their authentic selves without fear of judgment. In addition to providing a safe space for queer youth, Gender & Sexuality Alliances also welcome allies — individuals who stand in solidarity with and support their peers in their journey of self-expression and identity. For our youth, such spaces are life-changing. They offer safety, affirmation and the freedom to thrive.

Outgoing U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy offered us hope in his Parting Prescription for America: “We are at our best not when we fear but when we love, not when we turn away but when we turn toward one another. This must be our compass as we set out to build community.” Inspired by these words, we pledge to stand together as a community united in love and care for all its members.

This is why we loudly, proudly and unflinchingly offer our support to queer youth. Hosting and facilitating LGBTQ+-friendly clubs and events does more than tell queer youth we love and accept them — it shows them, through our actions, we affirm their worth, provide them with safety and make it clear that they belong as they are.

As Orcas Island youth-focused community leaders, we call on you to stand with us as we stand with our queer youth. They are not just an important part of our community; they are vital and vibrant threads in the fabric of who we are. Their strength, resilience and diversity enrich us all. If you are reading this, we invite you to join us in leading with love. Together, we can foster a community where everyone, regardless of their identity, feels seen, valued and supported.

The signatures for this letter were collected in just a few days. We recognize that we may have missed some youth-focused community in this process. If you’d like to add your name, you can do so by using the QR code link provided. Additional names will be added to the letter as they come in. You can view the updated letter by scanning the QR code.

Signed collectively with love and solidarity,

Ady Kenady Walker, school board director, Orcas Island School District

Alfred Bentley

Allison O’Brien

Alice Hibberd, Washington certified teacher

Alison O’Toole

Alison Sanders, Coalition for Orcas Youth

Alyssa Burnett, licensed mental health counselor associate

Amber Paulsen, Kaleidoscope director

Angie Reed, young adult librarian

Dr. Anastasia Jones, naturopathic physician

Bethany Marie, communications director, Orcas Center

Bianca Cox

Bridget Broderick, OISD school board

Bryn Rueb, Orcas Island Children’s House

Carlie Rankin, elementary para educator

Camille Fleming MD, family physician Salish Sea Medical, Institute for Healthcare Improvement medical provider

Ms. Carla Shanks Morales, social and emotional learning teacher in the Public Elementary School

Dr. Cassandra Perryman

Chama Anderson, youth soccer coach

Chelsie Guilford

Cher Jefford, board member of Orcas Center

Chris Chord, Coalition of Orcas Youth, executive committee member

Chris Waage

C. Laflin

Cindy Sapp, OISD school nurse

Cindy Wolf, former San Juan County Council member

Claire Cawley

Claire Nollman

Colleen and Caleb Summers

Corey Wiscomb

Darren Dix, OISD band/mariachi/bucket drumming

David Affolter

Dimitri Stankevich, Orcas Center executive director

Elisabeth Alperin, Ph.D.

Elizabeth Watson Halsey, juvenile probation counselor

Emilie Robinson

Eric Webb, superintendent Orcas Island School District

Erin O’Dell, executive director Orcas Community Resource Center

Ethna Flanagan

Evan Buxbaum, pediatrician, Island Primary Care-Orcas

Fletcher I Dae, OI Pride co-founder/board member, EMT at OI Fire & Rescue

Funhouse Commons Board of Directors

Greg White, chairman Orcas Island School Board, Funhouse Disability program coordinator

Haley Cruz Winchell

Heidi Bruce

Ingrid Mattson

Jamey Moriarty, production assistant at Orcas Center

Janet Brownell

Jean Henigson

Jen Krauss

Jesse Fabrikant

Jim Bredouw

John Ehrmantraut, Orcas Senior Center Board chair

Julia Soes

Julie Pinardi

Julie Steimel

Justin Paulsen

Kamala McCullum, special education teacher

Kari McVeigh, retired school superintendent, San Juan County

Kari Van Gelder, teacher, Salmonberry School

Kate Long

Krista Bouchey

Kristi Kersten-Tenborg

Kyle Duncan Graham, program and facility director, Peach Pit

Kyle Freeman

Kyra Dyer

Lindsay Jennings, Orcas Island Community Foundation

Lorena Stankevich, director of special services, OISD

Lynda Sheldahl

Madden Surbaugh, OISD food services director

Maddie Olson, Funhouse youth development director

Maggie Vinson, director, Orcas Montessori School

Maia Vechey, Peach Pit co-founder

Mallory Balcomb

Mary Clure

Mary Wachter, Funhouse music facilitator

Maurice Austin

Meagan Gable, Peach Pit co-founder

Megan Greene, Orcas Island Middle School teacher

Megan Metcalf, development, communications & community outreach manager, OCRC

Megan Vock, OWL facilitator, IRHI teen rep program facilitator

Melinda Hallen

Melissa DeMaria

Michell Marshall

Natalie Miller-Nawn

​​Nicole Matisse, development director, Orcas Center

Nicole Spinogatti

Orcas Pride Board

Patricia Benton

Paula Gustafson

Paul Berry

​​Dr. Paul Freedman, founding head of school, Salmonberry School

Paul Steimel

Qasim Dino, OPAL communications director, OIHS paraeducator

Rachel Fletcher

Rebecca Parish

Rick Hughes

Robin Freeman

Ryan Carpenter, Funhouse executive director

Sadie Eichner

Sara Farish, Darvill’s Bookstore, OWL facilitator, IRHI volunteer

Sarah Davis, Funhouse office manager

Sarah Lyle, family physician, IRHI program coordinator

Sarah McKay, Funhouse program director

Shannon Wyss, Funhouse Rainbow Club volunteer and Orcas Island Pride Board

Sharman Ensminger

Sharon Ho

Sue Bauer

Susan Gaiser Gudgell

Susan Min

Susan Stoltz

Tam Lin, Orcas Island Pride Board

Teresa Tilton, Compass Health-Crisis Services

Thomas Pullano, M.D.

Tiffany Loney, Orcas Dance Collective

Trillium Swanson

Vicki O’Keefe, school librarian

Wally Gudgell

Yotam “Mr. Z” Zohar, Orcas Island Middle School teacher

Helpful resources:

Link to Trevor Project: www.thetrevorproject.org .

Human Rights Campaign resources for LGBTQ: www.hrc.org/resources/lgbtq-youth .

Updated letter here.

Updated letter here.